Notification emails are sent for various reasons. We're still working on getting all of them up and running: at the moment, notifications are only sent when someone DudeLists you or sends you a message.
You can turn them on and off in your account settings.
Some emails can't be switched off, because we may need to contact you about a problem with your profile: for example, if you removed your naked pics, uploaded something that isn't permitted, or we need to warn you that someone who messaged you was a scammer we've removed.
Please make sure the address you log in with is one you still use. See Changing your log in email address.
Last updated 11 September 2026